Okay, so I've been out of the loop doing my convent work for a few years. Is sex on the first date taboo, hot, love at first site or are you just a total slut?
See, guys would get a *high five*, girls would get a "you did what?!" The old saying is why buy the cow if you can get the milk for free. Not that I would necessarily get nakey and do the deed w/someone I just met but if the chemistry's right, who says you need to go on X amount of dates. Hey, I ended up w/two gorgeous twins out of a fling! Whoohoooo. Boys, honest thoughts?!
As a pro bono gigolo I have a somewhat different stance on the do I / don't I on the first date. If the chemistry is right, go for it. If there's any doubt, red flags, whatever - then wait for it.
On a tangent, I just saw the best bumper sticker. It was something like:
Guys say 'Why buy the cow if you get the milk for free'. Nowadays 80% of women are not getting married because they realized 'Why buy the pig for free when all you get is a little sausage'
Naturally the little sausage part doesn't apply in my case
Well see, you're a guy so of course you would think that tappin that on the first date is ok.
However, would you have respect for a girl that "put out?" i.e. would you call her again?
And big sausage? C'mon now, we all know you have a one-inch wonder. It's not the size that matters, it's how well you use it! Have no fear, Extenze is here!
Maybe I'm an old man, but I just don't care about the whole first date stigma anymore.
I've had amazing, dedicated, respectful, honest relationships with girlfriends that put out right away, and been cheated on by girls that made me wait a month. So really, I don't see the correlation. Some girls have this reverse psych thing going where they'll make a guy wait BECAUSE THEY KNOW DEEP INSIDE THEY'RE A TOTAL SLUT. Girls that don't think about it or obsess on it tend to be more comfortable and honest with themselves and if they're a slut/cheater then you can tell right away.
Shelly seems to be indicative of the latter because she wears her sexuality on her sleeve (so to speak) but is probably a very passionate, dedicated partner.
well I'm doomed from the start because most guys "date" me anyway because of the art that I wear on my sleeve and apparently in this day and age, girls w/tattoos = easy lay. As my bumper sticker states "Tattoos aren't just for sailors and whores anymore."
And yes, I do wear my sexuality on my sleeve. Most can't deal w/that and alot of times it gets me into trouble. And I am a very passionate and dedicated partner. I am the one who gets cheated on. I either date serial fuckers or guys that act like they're all into sex and sexuality and then they're a two pumps and a squirt guy and can't keep up.
I'm just ready remove my chastity belt (I found the key!) and end my six months of celibacy and wondering how to go about it. Any advice/offers are appreciated.
And to all you boys out there looking to keep your girls interested: (yes this may be a new topic but hell I ramble) there is a difference between fucking, having sex and making love. You need to have all 3 in a healthy relationship to keep the spice alive and your partner interested and not bored w/the roll over, poke and then go to sleep.
My "trick" for not having sex on the first date w/someone that I find god-like is this: I don't shave my legs and wear granny panties. So if things get hot and heavy, I have an awesome excuse in my head to say no.
Ugh, I've had girls say that as an excuse after I'm already coming around 3rd base, at which point, I'm starting to regret even stealing second. Advice to girls: Only use that technique if you actually have the discipline to say no! If you're going to get horned up enough to go through with the deed even under such circumstances it's just going to make me think you're funky/lazy/ick.
No, it's an actual "reason" to say no. Thus, I would say no. There's no friggin way I'm going to sleep w/someone and the first time he gets to feel my five o'clock shadow and granny panties!
